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My story...

As the creator of this Community Interest Company, I wanted to share my story with you: – After a far from illustrious educational career at two very different types of schools, I followed in my father’s footsteps and joined the British Army as soon as I was able.

Soon afterwards my father and brother initiated me into a Masonic organisation called the Buffs, in a military base in Antwerpen, Belgium. Its full name is the Royal Antediluvian Order of Buffaloes, and the Lodge was called Bodega. I was immediately embroiled in the good works they do with the local orphanage and in helping people in the community.

Fast forward 40 years and the influence of a book called North Star Thinking, by William Polston. In this book it asked the reader to really think of an ultimate ambition or goal. As soon as I read the book, I understood I already had my North Star! Before sharing this, it must be noted that the goal should be almost impossible to achieve, but on the right trajectory.

Ok, so I really want to be an Angel, and I have a vision of meeting St Peter and the pearly gates and after he welcomes me in to heaven, we start talking and he asks me what job I would like to do, of course I tell him I would like to be an Angel and he replies, “what makes you think you can be an Angel?” To which I ask him if he has not been watching my term on Earth!

“For me it’s about being the person you want to become”

So, you may often hear me talk about feathers I have earned that day or planning other events to help people as I have my entire life. As a serial Entrepreneur I wanted to earn money so that I could help more people, but the more people I helped the more money I needed and so it continued. I dreamed of financial freedom so I could do this work all the time, and not just squeeze it in during my spare time.

On the 28th February 2025 a massive change in my business renting Vans to Amazon delivery drivers caused me to re-think this strategy and has led me to just focus all my energy in to helping others, for there are always people in a worse situation.